Who can help?

Elder abuse will not stop happening on its own. You need someone to confront you and provide help. Many older people are too embarrassed to report the abuse. Or, they are afraid that if they do, the abuser will find out and the abuse will get worse.

If you think someone you know is being abused or abused, either physically, emotionally, or financially, talk to that person when the two of you are alone. You could tell him that you think something is wrong and you are worried. Offer to take her somewhere where she can get help; for example, to a local adult protective services agency.

Many local, state, and national social service agencies can help with emotional, legal, and financial abuse issues.

The Administration for Community Living has a center on elder abuse called the National Center on Elder Abuse where you can find out how to report abuse, get help, and learn about state laws that deal with abuse, mistreatment, and neglect. For more information, visit https://ncea.acl.gov (in English with some publications in Spanish). Or, call the Eldercare Locator Monday through Friday at 800-677-1116.

Most states require doctors and lawyers to report elder abuse. Family and friends can report it too. Don't wait, help is available!

If you think someone is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local police for immediate help.